· By Ashley Heeley
Little Evening Rituals That Help You Switch Off
The modern struggle to switch off
You finally reach the end of the day - phone still pinging, mind still running. You’re tired, but somehow not ready to rest. In a world that celebrates constant productivity, learning to slow down has become its own kind of rebellion.
Creating a simple evening ritual isn’t about perfection or performing wellness. It’s about giving your body and mind a clear signal: the day is done.
1. Dim the noise — and the lights
Light tells your brain whether it’s time to stay alert or wind down. Try lowering the brightness in your home an hour before bed - lamps instead of overheads, candles instead of screens. If you can, leave your phone in another room and set an alarm on something old-fashioned.
You’ll be surprised how much calm comes from the absence of blue light and endless scrolling.
2. Create a small, repeatable ritual
The key word here is repeatable. It could be brewing herbal tea, taking a few slow stretches, or simply tidying the space around your bed. When done nightly, these small gestures become cues for rest - your body starts to associate them with safety and stillness.
If you struggle to remember, link your ritual to something automatic: “When I brush my teeth, I also light the candle.” Over time, it becomes effortless.
3. Breathe like you mean it
We often underestimate how much shallow breathing keeps us stuck in “go” mode. Try a 4-7-8 breathing pattern:
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Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds
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Hold for 7
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Exhale slowly through your mouth for 8
It’s scientifically proven to lower heart rate and quiet the nervous system — no apps, subscriptions, or gear required.
4. Step into warmth
A warm bath or shower isn’t just self-care theatre - it triggers a gentle drop in core body temperature afterward, which helps signal sleep. Add magnesium flakes, Epsom salts, or a few drops of lavender oil for extra calm.
Even if a bath isn’t possible, washing your hands and face mindfully with warm water can have the same grounding effect.
5. Nourish your night
What you consume before bed can make or break rest. Heavy meals, caffeine, or screens right before sleep can overstimulate. Instead, lean toward calm-inducing habits: herbal teas, magnesium-rich snacks (like bananas or almonds), or adaptogenic herbs that support relaxation.
Some people like to add a small herbal boost - a chamomile tea, a mushroom blend, or an easy bedtime gummy - as part of their nightly ritual. The idea isn’t to medicate sleep but to make it welcoming.
6. Journal the noise away
If thoughts race the moment your head hits the pillow, keep a notebook by the bed. Write down to-dos, worries, or simple gratitudes. This externalises the mental clutter so your brain doesn’t need to rehearse it overnight.
Even one line “Today I handled things the best I could” can be enough to reset your inner dialogue before sleep.
7. Honour consistency over complexity
The best routine is the one you actually do. Five quiet minutes can be more powerful than an elaborate hour-long ritual you never repeat. Choose one or two steps that feel achievable, and treat them like non-negotiables.
When your evening becomes predictable, your nervous system learns to trust the rhythm and rest follows naturally.
A mindful close
The goal isn’t perfect sleep hygiene or rigid structure. It’s about reclaiming a pocket of peace before the world starts again. Every evening ritual, no matter how small, is a gentle act of self-respect.
If you’re exploring natural ways to make your nights calmer our Sleep Gummies and RAW CBD Oil can be a lovely companion to these simple rituals. But the real magic happens in the consistency, not the product.
Sleep well.